….. part 2 of last night vent
Appearantly he’s trying to get back with my friend but just last night he was trying to get me to hook him with my people and saying f**** her and other things. Shes handling it badly and the pressure that is being put by her family made me upset. And knowing she thinks he’s trying to get with her when i just talked to him about the situation worries me to the point of sadness. leaving me with the question do i say something or leave alone? i’ve been stuck in this awkward situation before and was able to get out of but dicussing it with a close friend and situation was resolved. but that was bf/gf relationship. this is a marriage and one thing i’m not is a homewreaker nor do i bring bad news to the party. My concern is for my little niece and then her. None for him esp knowing he’s playing people.
What do i?
Awkwardness that slowly turns to anger.
I got to vent for a second.
You are my best friends soon to be ex-husband. And you have talked to me in forever and when things got bad between you and her you deleted me. Now you come to me wanting me to hook you up on a blind date with one of my friends or even as have nerve to ask teammates maybe. Now you are talking to me via skype. you iniatated fine. I ask you the child and my friend had together and you tell me shes scared of losing you and not handling the situation well. but you used her to go pick up women. That’s enough to make me mad. Not mention you start lecturing me about the sport i play. So i have to defend my actions. Ya you were good when you played and you played longer than me but dont lecture me about it when you cant even keep your life together and you are talking about how you found her profile on a dd=ating website so you decided to get one. You brag about how much you make and talk abotu what your buying in the future. And now all you need to find is the new mrs…….. Buddy you dont know how angry and how awkward i feel about this entire situation. And you must not realize that me and your soon to be ex-wife friendship is more a sister thing. we support ach other. we may not as often as we like but we would never go behind each others back and nor let each other down. I wasn’t real good friends with you anyways and still aren’t but i can not believve the audcity you would hav ask m such a question and expect me to honestly let you know. I’m not ruining a friends life and definately not a teammates. So you can go beat your drum to a different beat. And while your at take care of Niece instead of using her. shes not adjusting well then you need to help her adjust and try make it a competition between you and your future ex. she’s calmed wit posting things but talking to one of her closest friends in this manner is over stepping boundaries. i can not believe that this just happened.
Life
ya know being out of season. Makes you think about what you what you missed in season. the things to stay in shape. And trying do that when you dont have access to a gym sucks.
periods
as an athlete usually can be the best thing unless you weren’t one before.. but even extremely long periods can wear on anyone and knowing that clotting is happein again now. it’s just not good at all. ur body waking up saying oh hey u might want to go to the bathroom or its going to turn ugly in 5 seconds. . on for over 40 days with no relief and the meds that was supposed to stop me days ago didn’t even work. but life goes on esp when you got another 2 hour drive to another game that your thankfully not playing.
bus trips
1-2 hour hour trips. bad period. night game. tired/frustrated player. period
